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Plus-Sized Woman Rocks Bikini on Hollywood Boulevard to Promote Body Acceptance
Los Angeles is known for many things: great weather, a laidback lifestyle, and Hollywood’s biggest stars. But for many who live in La La Land, the pressure to conform to a certain beauty standard can leave them feeling downright depressed.
Why didn’t this have any notes?
It doesnt have any notes because its a black woman doing it. Had it been a white woman this wouldve been national news.
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Anonymous asked:
buggyeyes answered:
Probably because when she asks for him to let her read it he tells her not to and refuses to explain anything she’s signing, y’know, like NO GOOD ACTUAL LEGAL DOCUMENT SIGNING WOULD TAKE PLACE. Even if she was viewed as consensual, a good Dom would take the time needed to talk with their sub before each session to discuss boundaries, would NEVER ignore safewords or make their sub feel bad for using their safeword, and would never pressure a sub to do more than they wanted/felt comfortable doing, like christian grey does MULTIPLE TIMES IN THE BOOK.
Also, good Doms take time for a little thing called, AFTERCARE, making sure their sub is emotionally and physically safe and comforted coming back from a session. Plus, y’know, how it’s stated multiple times that Ana feels like shit, fears for her safety, and a whole host of other things that shouldn’t happen in a SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL BDSM RELATIONSHIP. THOSE THINGS HAPPEN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS, THE EXACT KIND OF THING NO MAN OR WOMAN SHOULD BE STUCK IN, AND THE EXACT THING THIS MOVIE/BOOK IS TRYING TO ROMANTICIZE AND NORMALIZE.
So fuck off with your toxic anti-feminist bullshit and go learn how ACTUAL BDSM works, thanks.
Did’ya read the book? No?
Then you doN’T FUCKING UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT. SHE ENJOYS IT, THERE FORE, IT IS NOT RAPE.
ALRIGHT?!
ALRIGHT!
In any other case, you might have had a point there.
I in fact, did not read the book. I am a rape survivor and a lot of the content was too triggering for me to handle, so I simply read pertinent excerpts and base my knowlege off of those. The simple fact of the matter is, christian grey does MULTIPLE things throught the books that are NOT in any way safe/sane/consensual, and that means it is not BDSM. Being too afraid to use the safeword doesn’t excuse the Dom from not stopping when the sub needs it. She is emotionally abused and it shows in how she feels and how he treats her. I really don’t want to have to delve into that triggerbarrel to find my exact sources on that again, but I will if need be. The point is, 50 shades DOES NOT accurately portray an informed, healthy BDSM relationship, it DOES romanticize abuse, and if you’re trying to tell me her terrified, stockholm syndromed-ass wanted it, then I’d like to formally request you sit on a cactus because I never wanted what my rapist did to me, but my silence in fear and my stockholm syndrome would have you say otherwise.
Yeah it’s a BDSM community thing, not a feminist thing. The way that Stephanie Meyer used vampires is the way E L James uses the BDSM scene. It brought people to a world they didn’t understand and then said people defend the bad thing for entertainment purposes completely saying fuck you to those who practice safely in a already fucked up world.
Always reblog Easy A.
This movie is gold
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Since I’m semi-inadvertently responsible for the “down with cis” meme, I guess I’ll address one thing I’ve seen a lot of.
Yeah, yeah, hypocrisy of cis people, blah blah blah. Here’s a shocker - crap like this online may just have negative effects on a cis person with either something bad going on in their life or intrinsic… things. Yeah, yeah, taste of own medicine, transphobic jokes are more likely to do that to trans people than this to cis people, blah blah blah. Alright, is your life going terribly, to the point where one little thing might push you over the edge? Is something… different that might cause little things to end in major problems? If your answer is no to both, congratulations, you’re a fucking cyberbully, you fuck. If yes to either, you should fucking know better, but I’ll excuse it.
tl;dr version: if you’re fine with using the “down with cis” meme for the lulz, let cis people use transphobic jokes for the lulz.
you had a window of time where you could have written off that fakest-story-ever story “as just a joke” to save face but you blew it how does that make you feel
